Maybe they aren't always, always

Stayed up too late reading "2016 Southern Sociological Society Presidential Address: Are Millennials Cracking the Gender Structure" Barbara J. Risman First Published March 6, 2017 Research Article 

https://doi-org.ezproxy.otago.ac.nz/10.1177/2329496517697145 (the link probably only works with Otgao Uni library login).  It is not a fun read, I am just humble bragging about doing my motherfucking homework.

So slept through my alarm again.  Not helped by a bit of lying awake being annoyed by things my trans-sister has bitched about over dinner.  She ripped in to me when I was talking about a movie i watched about the Alfred Benning murder of the 1970s.  The movie suggesting it was  reverse battered woman scenario where a husband snapped in an attempt to escape the control of the other is apparently just glorifying how men kill women.  My trans-sisters feminism is very aggressively "men are always in the wrong, no matter the details of the situation" - so it isn't a huge surprise.  If only I could project myself back into eight year old me and prevent my parents even having the sex that created that git.

And I am now late for the class I was up doing readings for.